"Well-behaved women seldom make history."
- Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Saturday, 7 March 2015

'Cause I'm a gypsy

No, not being racist here against gipsies, but if Shakira can sing a song about being a gipsy so I can write about it, right? Someone told me that we, strippers are the gipsies of the modern world. And I must say I agree with that person. If you hear the word “gipsy” what other words come to your mind straight away? Let me help. Entertaining. Music. Dance. Thief. Magician. Travel. Bags. Free. Wild. Nomad. No agreement, no commitments. No rules.

To read more, check out my website.

Thursday, 5 March 2015

Photoblog - Photos from Guadeloupe

I was happy to work with this talented photograper in Guadeloupe. If I have a chance, I would just go back and create some more amazing pictures with him!










More of his work here: www.gwadart.fr





Love,

Lindsay

Tuesday, 24 February 2015

BLOGGER NEWS

I just got this email from Goggle letting me know that

"We're writing to tell you about an upcoming change to the Blogger Content Policy that may affect your account.In the coming weeks, we'll no longer allow blogs that contain sexually explicit or graphic nude images or video. We'll still allow nudity presented in artistic, educational, documentary or scientific contexts, or where there are other substantial benefits to the public from not taking action on the content."

Well, I don't think they take it as an educational purposes although I'd love to teach some people that we strippers are also humans..

But you still can have the access to it until 23rd of March. It might take a little time but then I will create another website. My email address heartbrokenstilettos@gmail.com is still available and I would love to hear any suggestions or ideas about further changes. 

With love,
Lindsay


Dollar? No dollar? Scheiße egal!

(I would translate it as f***it, doesn't matter.)

I like the system when the club has its own house dollars for tipping the dancers. It's like Monopoly money, fun and can give a solid income on a busy night. In Germany most of the clubs have them. When I finish my 2 songs stage performance, I go topless to each customers asking for dollars and they put it in my string. End of the night each dollar count €0.5 to my budget, which is not a lot but if the night was busy it's easy to collect 50-100 dollars, sometimes even more. We share the tips with the club, so the club keeps the other €0.5. It's fair enough, in some clubs I'm not allowed to keep the tips at all. I like when the club makes the customers buy the dollars. Let's say the entrance fee is €10 but they get 10 dollars. Like it was in Luxembourg. In that case, even if they don't pay anything to the girls, each customer give tips at least. And they rarely take it home keeping it as a souvenir.

To find out more, visit my website.

Monday, 16 February 2015

Stripper's burn out


Yesterday one of the customers told his friend as he passed by:
“You can say anything, I think it's a fucking hard job.” I really wanted to stop him and talk about it, but he was already about to leave. He is right. We're constantly interacting with people using our private zone. Not like a waitress who takes the order, serves the customer and leaves the table. We let any drunk, ignorant, drugged person enter our comfort zone, so easy to collect all the negative energies, emotional rubbish from them. We have to deal with rejection, more than one time a night, and we have to participate in mind games. Easily lead to burn out, alcohol or/and drug abuse.

If you'd like to read more, please check out my website.

Saturday, 14 February 2015

Photoblog - thank you Lawrence!




I'm really pleased that I found this great photographer in Stratford upon Avon in England. I always have so much fun to cooperate with him

Thank you, Lawrence! :)

And happy Valentine's day to all! Let's the love spread! ;)

Tuesday, 10 February 2015

The German Experience - Osnabrück

Here I am. Germany. Again. I chose it because it's time to refresh my German a bit, I haven't used it for maybe 14 years. Right now I'm in a small town in Northwest Germany, called Osnabruck. I arrived on Friday and started to work. I made a joke that I came from the airport straight to the stage but actually, it's true. When I told the manager I'd like to take a shower before work she just looked at me like I am an alien. Shower? What for? But I convinced her so she let me take a quick shower and I made a 5 mins make-up and lets the show start!

To read more, visit my website.