"Well-behaved women seldom make history."
- Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Sunday, 26 October 2014

Dealing with rejection

In our job every stripper knows (indeed every salesperson knows) that a NO doesn't mean to reject you, only the product or the service you offer. But in practice it's difficult to deal with. 1 NO is okay, 2 NO is okay, 3-4 and you start to feel down, 5-6 or more and you end up sitting in the corner questioning yourself “What's wrong with me?” or worst, crying in the toilette or in the changing room. Here in Paris, I've seen it a lot. Beautiful girls wondering “What's wrong tonight? Nobody wants me..” I don't want to repeat myself but French customers (or even foreigners) here can give a real hard time for the girls being ridiculously rude and ignorant.


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2 comments:

  1. great inspiration - you know what people fear the most in this world:
    To be ignored - it is more dangerous than to be hated ....
    I can feel with you - the same goes for everybody
    Thanks for the book advice by the way :-)

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