"Well-behaved women seldom make history."
- Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Sunday 31 May 2015

5 things you should never ask from your dancer

1. How much money you make?
I consider this question extremely rude from a customer. Especially when my money depends on how much he's willing to pay. My experience these guys just asking questions but don't want to spend much money in the club. And I never ask my customers how much money they have in their pocket!
Here in the blog, I write about money and club system because I want to break the stereotype that we, dancers are super-rich. Unfortunately, it's not the case. But still, the question is not polite at all.


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Thursday 28 May 2015

Photoblog - inside the stripper's house

Many of you are wondering how and where we live. I hope this little photo selection  will satisfy your imagination. I'm a bit sad that I didn't take photos of the most extreme places, but that time I had no idea about this blog..

So here we are:

Sometimes I was accomodated in a hotel like this one. Perfect! We enjoyed the pool day and night!


In a few places the view from the room is breathtaking..

..sometimes not so.

Some club has the accomodation for the dancers in the middle of nowhere.

We feel lucky when there is a garden or at least a terrasse attached to the house..


..other places there is not even a proper window for the room.

It's a hard battle to deal with these stairs carrying 20+kg luggages with no help.

Some accomodations come with rules (and you can make fun of the boss's English)

And this is when there are no rules. But cockroaches and mice yes.

And now let's see where we actually live!




Not in luxury apartments but not on matrasses on the ground as some might think..

Monday 25 May 2015

You CAN find a canary in this bird feeder

(Referring to those who think you can not.)

Someone told me that there is no possibility to find a canary in a bird feeder. I didn't know what he meant by that exactly and still don't know. Probably he was thinking that all strippers are the same and you can't find a nice, intelligent woman working in this industry. Maybe he just hasn't met one. Although some girls I worked with in these 8 years spent in Stripperland are very special persons. But to see this speciality, you have to dig a little bit deeper than the fancy costumes and perfume clouds around them. That's what I like about consummation. You have a good talk with the customer, not only jumping from table to table “Do you want a private dance? Do you want a private dance?” I'm not a canary, but not a parrot either to repeat myself a hundred times a night saying the same things. With a bottle of champagne you build up a conversation with the client and you get to know lots of interesting things about each other.

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Saturday 16 May 2015

The Antwerp Boot Camp

I couldn't say a better description of the clubs here. It's like a hard physical and mental military training where they push you beyond your own limits. I've worked here in a different club maybe 5 years ago, I knew what to expect, but things in time didn't get any better. I remember 5 years ago when they offered an extra day off because they had enough girls, my friend and I stood up first. Those were very well appreciated and well spent days off with sleeping and resting after the exhausting work!


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Tuesday 5 May 2015

Photoblog - House of Fetish


Just a little proof that I'm doing fetish modeling sometimes.. :) I hope you like it!




Photo by Eddie Ataman



With love,

Lindsay

Saturday 2 May 2015

Why I prefer to work with men

I definitely prefer a male manager or boss over a woman. I work with other girls and indeed we are not always nice to each other, a woman who has power over the dancers can be more harmful than our nastiest colleague. Especially the ones who were dancers themselves before and now they feel superior because now they work behind the bar... Hallelujah! Such a big step on a career ladder! I had a quite bad experience in Oslo with the girl who works at the bar. I'm really not an ass-kissing person and she has had her favourite girls already, so I didn't even try to be nicer to her than it's required for a harmonious work relationship. But once we went down to the VIP area with my customer, and he took off his jacket and looked around if there is any hanger or something for the coat. I dared to ask the girl if we have any.


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