"Well-behaved women seldom make history."
- Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Saturday, 16 May 2015

The Antwerp Boot Camp

I couldn't say a better description of the clubs here. It's like a hard physical and mental military training where they push you beyond your own limits. I've worked here in a different club maybe 5 years ago, I knew what to expect, but things in time didn't get any better. I remember 5 years ago when they offered an extra day off because they had enough girls, me and my friend stood up first. Those were very well appreciated and well spent days off with sleeping and resting after the exhausted work!
That's my 2nd week working here and I feel I have no more power. Either physically and mentally. I should be a social butterfly with a huge smile on my face but some clubs just know how to kill it. All night long they leave the aircon on, it doesn't matter if there are customers or not. Sometimes you feel you're sitting in the fridge for hours – wearing nothing else but lingerie. And they don't care much if the girls are cold or getting sick. We are sitting in a bar chair all night with straight back (just like in school) and we have to dance minimum 7-8 times a night on stage, again if there are customers or not. I'm really crying back those times and clubs where nobody came in and we were sleeping or reading books on comfy sofas. Here we can't even sit in the VIP area when no customers. Until 7am. We can't leave even 10 minutes earlier. Then we sign the papers etc., often it's 8.30-9am when I go to bed. All for €35 fix salary per day (I make most of my money from tips, but this is not the kind of money you can rely on.) And if I fancy a drink from the bar (anything except water, even juice), I have to pay for it myself.

But what is really disturbing me that's the music. 8 hours house music, no variety. And it's way too loud. If I don't be deaf by end of the contract here, that's a miracle. No chance to talk to someone without screaming, sometimes I don't hear my own voice. This music is perfect when you're on drugs but if not? I don't take any.. (but here I'm seriously thinking about it just to survive!) Ah, and drugs: it's a Canaan for those who take drugs because you can get ANYTHING from customers for free! But if you don't, it sucks. And sometimes the other boss (I didn't know he's also a boss, I thought he's just a drunk, drugged attention-seeking customer because he don't behave like a boss) comes in and makes noise hitting a metal tray on the bar. It's a proper mental terror! (and God knows how much I'd like to hit his head with that tray at 6.30am!)

In the apartment the kitchen is empty, we didn't have even a kettle. I voluntarily bought one because I didn't want to go outside to Starbucks every time I fancy a coffee. (I drink a lot!) In the other apartment the girls put some money together to buy a micro so at least they can heat up their food. We don't even have a fridge! And when you work in places like this, you need to eat properly and healthy as food is a source of energy. I'm eating fast food since I'm here, no wonder I have not too much of energy these days. Not even for posting here.

So yes, this club really pushing my limits, both mental and physical. But as they say if it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger. I hope it's true..



(In the last few post it sounds I complained a lot about the clubs I worked at. It's kind of true because lately I didn't work in a club where I felt good and appreciated. And these are the pure facts about the stripping industry, no make up. If you think it's a sugary, sweet world where everybody is happy and makes amazingly good money, then this blog is for you to read.)

1 comment:

  1. As someone told me: "Don't forget, super stars works in Hollywood. Not in Antwerp.."

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