"Well-behaved women seldom make history."
- Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

Monday 16 February 2015

Stripper's burn out


Yesterday one of the customers told his friend as he passed by:
You can say anything, I think it's a fucking hard job.” I really wanted to stop him and talk about it, but he was already about to leave. He is right. We're constantly interacting with people using our private zone. Not like a waitress who takes the order, serves the customer and leaves the table. We let any drunk, ignorant, drugged person enter our comfort zone, so easy to collect all the negative energies, emotional rubbish from them. We have to deal with rejection, more than one time a night, and we have to participate in mind games. Easily lead to burn out, alcohol or/and drug abuse.

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2 comments:

  1. good experience sharing - thanks for the advice

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    1. You're welcome!
      It was not easy, I went through an emotional hell. But it was worth it!

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